Most people seem to think that their problems are someone elseâ€™s fault and that creating the life they want for themselves is dependent on other people (or other situations) being different than they are. Such thinking is simply wrong, false, faulty, and disempowering. What we experience in our life is of our own creation. Even when other people are involved, what is created could not come into existence without our involvement.
As a coach, I have the privilege of helping my clients turn around situations they dislike, improve relationships that have weighed them down, and make changes to enhance their lives in numerous ways. One of the first places I start with nearly all of my clients is their mindset, attitude, or outlook. Most people are unaware of the power of their thoughts and the way they talk about the world around them. Somehow, even in this modern day and age, many seem surprised to learn that the results they get in life start out as thoughts, beliefs, and ideas they hold in their minds.
When my clients start using their mental capacity in a more conscious, intentional way, there are miraculous changes that begin taking place (dramatic increases in financial wealth; significant decreases in stress, worry, and physical woes; greater happiness and deeper connections with loved ones; strengthened self-esteem and self-confidence; the list goes on).
Three simple ways to coach yourself to greatness in life
- Observe your thoughts. Listen to your words. Pay attention to your reactions to events and people around you.
- Replace ANY thought, word, or attitude that weighs you down with a thought, word, or attitude that frees you up.
- Tell the truth, yet do so in a way that inspires you (and those around you).
Itâ€™s as simple as that to plant the seeds of success. When you change what you plantâ€“your thoughts, beliefs, and attitudeâ€“what you grow changes too.
Let us rise up and be thankful, for if we didnâ€™t learn a lot today, at least we learned a little, and if we didnâ€™t learn a little, at least we didnâ€™t get sick, and if we got sick, at least we didnâ€™t die; so, let us all be thankful.
What has happened for you when youâ€™ve shifted your mindset or altered your attitude?