Connected, Loving, Joyful, Easy Family Life!

coaching & classes for parents tired of struggling

What I Do

I support loving, dedicated moms and dads to break away from handed-down parenting practices and rediscover their way, their patience, and their passion for creating peaceful family life that works for everyone. I’m driven in this work by my desire to help children grow up as unburdened as possible AND to help parents express their most authentic values in their family relationships. To me, when we’re successful, families thrive and that makes the family happier and it positively impacts every other relationship that family has.

Shonnie Lavender



. . .  because I’m currently a full time graduate student in clinical mental health counseling, I’m not seeing individual clients at the present time, so below are some resources I offer instead.

Shonnie Lavender


If you’re looking for support, I invite you to join the Conscious Moms’ Circle, a free Facebook group with over 4,000 moms worldwide. Here are a handful of videos other parents have found useful. You can view all my videos on my YouTube channel. If these or other videos speak to you, click the “Connect with Shonnie” tab at the bottom of my screen or reach out to me on Facebook.


Shonnie is fully committed to your growth as a parent so if you’re fully committed to investing the time and energy, you will see amazing results! Shonnie is so skilled at meeting you where you are at and asking the right questions to support you in unlocking your own wisdom, seeing your role, and feeling empowered to make positive changes.
~ Laura

Shonnie has a great ability make you feel safe. She doesn’t talk down or give basic instructions and the best part is her willingness to make you feel included on the journey. You really feel the connection.
~ Laine

What results do you want to create?


Find inspiration, ideas, conversation, and support via the Conscious Moms’ Circle on Facebook.

Get Support!

Let’s start transforming a current parenting challenge. Get 15-minutes of complimentary parent coaching with my Illumination Session!

Shonnie in the media