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		<title>by: Shonnie</title>
		<link>http://shonnielavender.com/blog/2007/11/17/transformative-power-of-gratitude/#comment-90497</link>
		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Dec 2007 16:42:53 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>Ken your rap is awesome!!! I read it aloud (with Gusto) to Bruce and agree with your sentiments. Thank YOU for sharing! Happy New Year!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ken your rap is awesome!!! I read it aloud (with Gusto) to Bruce and agree with your sentiments. Thank YOU for sharing! Happy New Year!
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		<title>by: Ken Donaldson</title>
		<link>http://shonnielavender.com/blog/2007/11/17/transformative-power-of-gratitude/#comment-87915</link>
		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Dec 2007 19:31:55 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>Okay, here's the annual Giving Thanks Rap.

The more Soul and emotion you put into it, the better it will feel.

Enjoy!!

The Giving Thanks Rap

So I'm givin' thanks, oh yes I am
Gimme some paper and gimme a pen

Gotta be thankful for the way I'm livin'
Gotta be grateful on this Thanksgivin'

For many great people who just support me
For the place I live and just bein' free

For the air I breathe and the land I walk
For just being able to sing and shout and talk

And gotta be thankful for my creative spirit
As well as the morning dove, oh I love to hear it

Gotta be grateful for the work I do
For my clients and my colleagues, yeah, I love them too

And how 'bout the sunrise and the great sunsets
This life is great, but it gets better yet

Grateful to be able to go to new places
And to meet new people and see new faces

And surely I'm grateful for all my possessions
And having good friends who'll hear my confessions

And I'm even thankful for the losses and the grief
'Cause they make me realize lettin' go invites relief

(And I'm even so grateful for all my past romantic love
'Cause today I do know, no longer must I shove)

But most of all, what I'm thankful for
Is just this great Life that gives me more and more

I shout to the heavens and today I do say, "Thanks!!"
I'm investing now in gratitude, you can take that to the bank

Ken "Keni Lee" Donaldson

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Pura Vida!

Ken

Ken Donaldson, M.A., L.M.H.C.
The REALationship Coach
http://www.realationshipcoach.com/
Ken@REALationshipCoach.com
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Okay, here&#8217;s the annual Giving Thanks Rap.</p>
<p>The more Soul and emotion you put into it, the better it will feel.</p>
<p>Enjoy!!</p>
<p>The Giving Thanks Rap</p>
<p>So I&#8217;m givin&#8217; thanks, oh yes I am<br />
Gimme some paper and gimme a pen</p>
<p>Gotta be thankful for the way I&#8217;m livin&#8217;<br />
Gotta be grateful on this Thanksgivin&#8217;</p>
<p>For many great people who just support me<br />
For the place I live and just bein&#8217; free</p>
<p>For the air I breathe and the land I walk<br />
For just being able to sing and shout and talk</p>
<p>And gotta be thankful for my creative spirit<br />
As well as the morning dove, oh I love to hear it</p>
<p>Gotta be grateful for the work I do<br />
For my clients and my colleagues, yeah, I love them too</p>
<p>And how &#8217;bout the sunrise and the great sunsets<br />
This life is great, but it gets better yet</p>
<p>Grateful to be able to go to new places<br />
And to meet new people and see new faces</p>
<p>And surely I&#8217;m grateful for all my possessions<br />
And having good friends who&#8217;ll hear my confessions</p>
<p>And I&#8217;m even thankful for the losses and the grief<br />
&#8216;Cause they make me realize lettin&#8217; go invites relief</p>
<p>(And I&#8217;m even so grateful for all my past romantic love<br />
&#8216;Cause today I do know, no longer must I shove)</p>
<p>But most of all, what I&#8217;m thankful for<br />
Is just this great Life that gives me more and more</p>
<p>I shout to the heavens and today I do say, &#8220;Thanks!!&#8221;<br />
I&#8217;m investing now in gratitude, you can take that to the bank</p>
<p>Ken &#8220;Keni Lee&#8221; Donaldson</p>
<p>********************</p>
<p>Pura Vida!</p>
<p>Ken</p>
<p>Ken Donaldson, M.A., L.M.H.C.<br />
The REALationship Coach<br />
<a href='http://www.realationshipcoach.com/' rel='nofollow'>http://www.realationshipcoach.com/</a><br />
<a href="mailto:Ken@REALationshipCoach.com">Ken@REALationshipCoach.com</a><br />
(727) 394-7325
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		<title>by: Shonnie</title>
		<link>http://shonnielavender.com/blog/2007/11/17/transformative-power-of-gratitude/#comment-81771</link>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Dec 2007 01:40:43 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>&lt;em&gt;Lance&lt;/em&gt; -- Thank you for the reminder of the myriad things for which we can be grateful; you're right, there is so much! I also like your statement about having gratitude for the "wonder" -- there's so much we can not explain or understand and wonder is a way to keep connected to our childlike sense of awe and appreciation.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>Lance</em> &#8212; Thank you for the reminder of the myriad things for which we can be grateful; you&#8217;re right, there is so much! I also like your statement about having gratitude for the &#8220;wonder&#8221; &#8212; there&#8217;s so much we can not explain or understand and wonder is a way to keep connected to our childlike sense of awe and appreciation.
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		<title>by: Lance Secretan</title>
		<link>http://shonnielavender.com/blog/2007/11/17/transformative-power-of-gratitude/#comment-81539</link>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Dec 2007 05:55:29 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>Shonnie, thank you, as always, for your wisdom.

I am always grateful - even for the little things that inspire me - birds, clouds, smiles, mountains, rivers, hugs, health......the list is endless.

Thomas Merton described a mystic as someone who sees the wonder in all things. Thus, we can all be mystics, and therefore permanently grateful for the wonder in everything.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Shonnie, thank you, as always, for your wisdom.</p>
<p>I am always grateful - even for the little things that inspire me - birds, clouds, smiles, mountains, rivers, hugs, health&#8230;&#8230;the list is endless.</p>
<p>Thomas Merton described a mystic as someone who sees the wonder in all things. Thus, we can all be mystics, and therefore permanently grateful for the wonder in everything.
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		<title>by: Shonnie</title>
		<link>http://shonnielavender.com/blog/2007/11/17/transformative-power-of-gratitude/#comment-80189</link>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Nov 2007 16:15:42 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>&lt;em&gt;Fran&lt;/em&gt; -- Thank you for sharing this wonderfully powerful quote, as well as your real life example! I think the distinction between "ownership" and "stewardship" is incredibly important...and, in terms of "thanksgiving," reminds us that all we have is truly a gift. :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>Fran</em> &#8212; Thank you for sharing this wonderfully powerful quote, as well as your real life example! I think the distinction between &#8220;ownership&#8221; and &#8220;stewardship&#8221; is incredibly important&#8230;and, in terms of &#8220;thanksgiving,&#8221; reminds us that all we have is truly a gift. <img src='http://shonnielavender.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' />
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		<title>by: Fran Henry</title>
		<link>http://shonnielavender.com/blog/2007/11/17/transformative-power-of-gratitude/#comment-80180</link>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Nov 2007 15:11:01 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>I thought this quote from Richard Foster offers a great perspective on thanksgiving: When we have a spirit of thanksgiving we can hold all things lightly.  We receive; we do not grab.  And when it is time to let go, we do so freely.  we are not owners, only stewards.

To get a real life experience of this just notice the breath. Just insert breath in place of "all things" in the quote as you reread it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I thought this quote from Richard Foster offers a great perspective on thanksgiving: When we have a spirit of thanksgiving we can hold all things lightly.  We receive; we do not grab.  And when it is time to let go, we do so freely.  we are not owners, only stewards.</p>
<p>To get a real life experience of this just notice the breath. Just insert breath in place of &#8220;all things&#8221; in the quote as you reread it.
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		<title>by: Shonnie</title>
		<link>http://shonnielavender.com/blog/2007/11/17/transformative-power-of-gratitude/#comment-79153</link>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Nov 2007 21:03:11 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>&lt;em&gt;Margot&lt;/em&gt; -- Ah, yes, quiet time is vital. Your thoughts reminded me that I sometimes start my journey to gratitude by noticing what I don't like or don't appreciate. If I get "worked up" enough, sometimes that feeling of a lack of appreciation acts as its own wake up call reminding me that in spite of things which I dislike, I am still overwhelmed with blessings. It's a humbling way to get to gratitude, yet it's simply the path I tread from time to time. Thank you for sharing.

&lt;em&gt;Jená&lt;/em&gt; -- Right on woman! I still vividly remember a time when a surgeon with whom I worked had been really irritated and upset with some of us and I had felt bitchy and irritated with him in response. On the walk from my office to my car, however, I had a small smile on my face as I thought to myself that I was grateful for the encounter with him (for many reasons) even though it wasn't exactly the "order" I would have placed had I been queen of the universe. Thanks for jogging this memory for me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>Margot</em> &#8212; Ah, yes, quiet time is vital. Your thoughts reminded me that I sometimes start my journey to gratitude by noticing what I don&#8217;t like or don&#8217;t appreciate. If I get &#8220;worked up&#8221; enough, sometimes that feeling of a lack of appreciation acts as its own wake up call reminding me that in spite of things which I dislike, I am still overwhelmed with blessings. It&#8217;s a humbling way to get to gratitude, yet it&#8217;s simply the path I tread from time to time. Thank you for sharing.</p>
<p><em>Jená</em> &#8212; Right on woman! I still vividly remember a time when a surgeon with whom I worked had been really irritated and upset with some of us and I had felt bitchy and irritated with him in response. On the walk from my office to my car, however, I had a small smile on my face as I thought to myself that I was grateful for the encounter with him (for many reasons) even though it wasn&#8217;t exactly the &#8220;order&#8221; I would have placed had I been queen of the universe. Thanks for jogging this memory for me.
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		<title>by: Jená</title>
		<link>http://shonnielavender.com/blog/2007/11/17/transformative-power-of-gratitude/#comment-78795</link>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Nov 2007 00:55:22 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>Hi Shonnie -- 

In mulling over your question for the past few days, and in reading the comments already posted, the thought that keeps occurring to me is the importance of being grateful for difficulties and complications. 

It's more than looking for a silver lining (though that's important, too -- seeking the blessing in disguise). In some ways, it's like what C.S. Lewis is saying, and like the serenity prayer: acknowledging that my desire and comfort are not necessarily the best measure of "the good". 

When a complicated problem comes my way, especially at work, I try to remember that if such problems didn't occur pretty regularly, there might not need to be someone in this role. And gratitude seems like an appropriate (if sometimes difficult) response. 

Shonnie, you've done it again -- thanks for the prompting to reflect on gratitude and its gifts. You always provide such nourishing food for thought :-)
Happy Thanksgiving!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Shonnie &#8212; </p>
<p>In mulling over your question for the past few days, and in reading the comments already posted, the thought that keeps occurring to me is the importance of being grateful for difficulties and complications. </p>
<p>It&#8217;s more than looking for a silver lining (though that&#8217;s important, too &#8212; seeking the blessing in disguise). In some ways, it&#8217;s like what C.S. Lewis is saying, and like the serenity prayer: acknowledging that my desire and comfort are not necessarily the best measure of &#8220;the good&#8221;. </p>
<p>When a complicated problem comes my way, especially at work, I try to remember that if such problems didn&#8217;t occur pretty regularly, there might not need to be someone in this role. And gratitude seems like an appropriate (if sometimes difficult) response. </p>
<p>Shonnie, you&#8217;ve done it again &#8212; thanks for the prompting to reflect on gratitude and its gifts. You always provide such nourishing food for thought <img src='http://shonnielavender.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
Happy Thanksgiving!
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		<title>by: Margot Wurst</title>
		<link>http://shonnielavender.com/blog/2007/11/17/transformative-power-of-gratitude/#comment-78742</link>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Nov 2007 20:07:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>Hi Shonnie!  I love the C.S. Lewis quote you include in your post.  He was right on with this thought!

If left to my own devices, I tend to miss all the bounty God has placed right in front of me.  Intentional quiet time with God is the best way I know to keep clear perspective.  I have so much to be grateful for - and I am!  Life is a beautiful adventure - each day full of wonderful possibilities.  I am so thankful!

Happy Thanksgiving,
Margot Wurst</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Shonnie!  I love the C.S. Lewis quote you include in your post.  He was right on with this thought!</p>
<p>If left to my own devices, I tend to miss all the bounty God has placed right in front of me.  Intentional quiet time with God is the best way I know to keep clear perspective.  I have so much to be grateful for - and I am!  Life is a beautiful adventure - each day full of wonderful possibilities.  I am so thankful!</p>
<p>Happy Thanksgiving,<br />
Margot Wurst
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		<title>by: Talking My Walk: Random Musings on Life, the Universe and Everything-- &#187; Some of the things I&#8217;m grateful for</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Nov 2007 18:44:44 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>[...] I’m writing this post in response to my wife Shonnie’s query on her blog (see below) and, of course, the Thanksgiving holiday. I would be grateful to know about your experience with gratitude. How has it changed your life? What keeps you from feeling grateful? What most profoundly evokes your gratitude? Please use the “comments” area to share or trackback to this post from your site. &#8211;Shonnie Lavender [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] I’m writing this post in response to my wife Shonnie’s query on her blog (see below) and, of course, the Thanksgiving holiday. I would be grateful to know about your experience with gratitude. How has it changed your life? What keeps you from feeling grateful? What most profoundly evokes your gratitude? Please use the “comments” area to share or trackback to this post from your site. &#8211;Shonnie Lavender [&#8230;]
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